Many times throughout our lives we will have relationships and come and go. However, it can be difficult to let one end.
If the relationship you are in is totally one sided, you need to move on. Many times this happens with females and their girlfriends. If you have a friend who is always so needy and whiny, and you have been there for her for everything but you would never call her with an emergency, then it is time to end the friendship. You might think that once her crisis is over she will be able to be there for you more, but the truth of the situation is she will just find another crisis to cling to. She will always need to you and be unable to be there for you.
If you are in a relationship with someone who does not support you, you need to find someone who will. If you are making the decision to lose weight, quit smoking, go back to school, and someone in your life is either refusing to help you or does not think that you need to better your life, then the relationship should not continue. In this type of relationship the other person does not want you to better yourself. They are worried that if you start to make your life better they will have to change, and they do not want that to happen. However, why would you want to remain unhappy. You need make decisions for yourself so the relationships should end.
If the relationship has been going on for years and they do not want to commit,, they will never want to commit. There are many reasons not make a commitment to soon in the relationship, however, most people know within a couple months to a year if they want to marry you or not. If they say they need more time, they just don’t want to marry you. If they are not ready to take the next step in your relationship then you need to make it for them and end the relationship.



